Postby schoolteacher » Wed Feb 06, 2019 10:26 pm
I feel surrounded by this disease at the moment. Losing Judy after a long battle.
My husband is in the UK because his brother is dying from small cell lung cancer that has spread to his brain. 5tumours and really I’ll before any medics were aware. They can’t do anything for him now he’s been told.
Our brother in law has had cardiomyopathy for many years but now prostate cancer has spread to his groin. (Lymph nodes I assume) they were told glands.
The care and information they have received seems inferior to my eyes. The family don’t really understand and seem to sit around and wait for appointments and information which seems to be lacking. How can they make informed decisions without clear information?
Hubby is there indefinitely on a one way ticket. It’s such a cruel way to go.
DX OCT 08, 9mm Her2+ grade 3 tumour and DCIS. Nodes clear, wide local incision, unclear margins so LB mastectomy, chemo Taxotere Carboplatin Herceptin Tram Flap Nov 2011